How To Get Girls
January 30, 2009
Manners
If you want a woman’s phone number, be a man and ask for it. Don’t pull that feeble move of handing the lady your business card and expecting them to reciprocate.
Don’t wait a week to call. Playing it cool irritates women. Two or three days are plenty of time to wait.
Don’t wait until the last minute to ask for a date. Give them a chance to look forward to it. (On the other hand, in the early stages of a new relationship (first month) never ask for a date several months in advance. Make sure the relationship is something both parties want to pursue before you get locked into plans you may not want to keep.)
Be a gentleman. That means paying for dinner, holding the door open, and using your table manners.
What not to do:
According to body language experts, you shouldn’t fold your arms or chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. Folded arms are a sign of defensiveness or being closed. Chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.
Never cover your face or mouth with your hand, or scratch your nose, chin or ear. All symbols of lying!!
People are most comfortable with and attracted to people who are “like” themselves (in dress, mannerisms, thoughts, etc.). Try to “mirror” your flirting target’s behavior, body position, and mannerisms such as speech speed and volume, etc.
If she leans forward, you lean forward. If you are mirroring someone’s behavior, they’ll begin to feel as though the two of you are connected and “in tune.”
This seems like converse advice, but it’s OK to show some weakness (it’s not a job interview so) you may squat down to talk to her if she’s sitting (you were standing), this gives her the feeling of power, but you know who really has the power!
Be yourself. If you have to be phony it won’t work out for either of you!
